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General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: December 11, 2014, 10:45:37 PM »

General / Re: Name a Movie You Hate That Everyone Else Seems to Love
« on: December 11, 2014, 10:45:00 PM »
Love, Actually

General / Re: Post Pictures of Yo Bad Selves mk. 3
« on: December 10, 2014, 10:59:53 AM »

General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: December 10, 2014, 10:59:29 AM »
You don't need to apologize, aaron. We all care about you and were worried. I'm so glad you feel like you can talk to us about all of this and I hope you remember that next time you're having a hard time. And like Blake said, lots of us are always here to talk and have been through mental health issues.

General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: December 08, 2014, 07:37:55 PM »
09 The Vandals - Come Out Fighting:

General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: December 08, 2014, 07:12:20 PM »
Aaron, I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. You're right that there are people here who care and I know it is more than 3 or 4. I am begging you to get some professional help. We will support you in any way we can. We want you around here.

General / Re: im in LA witg mitch the champ
« on: December 06, 2014, 07:04:07 PM »
Come out to the suburbs and hang out with me, Jer, and a baby ;)

General / Re: depression thread
« on: December 03, 2014, 10:30:03 PM »
Chris, I noticed you mentioned focusing on your breathing and tingly limbs. I learned a couple years ago that tingly limbs can be one of the symptoms of hyperventilating. Focusing on your breathing is great but maybe next time you can notice if you're doing it in a way that is making you feel more anxious. There are lots of really great mindfulness meditations online that are abiut noticing your breath without doing anything to change it that have been really helpful for me.

General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: November 13, 2014, 01:19:14 PM »
becca how do you find workshops like that? sounds really interesting

i had just been checking out the website for the center that put it on because they offer telephone counseling that i was considering. they had a contest to win a scholarship to the workshop so i entered it and won!

General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: November 12, 2014, 09:36:08 PM »
Sorry Kdub :(

+Skyped with kW today

General / happy late birthday Alexis!!
« on: November 12, 2014, 09:35:14 PM »
Oops again, haha! Come on, folks!

General / Re: Movember
« on: November 11, 2014, 10:14:29 PM »
I'm sorry to hear that. How is he doing? And I wasn't calling your stache in particular gross. Just in general, haha

General / Re: Movember
« on: November 11, 2014, 08:51:57 AM »
I think it was originally like...people pledges them money for prostate cancer research if they did it, which is great, but then everyone kept doing the gross mustaches without the charity?

General / Re: Movember
« on: November 10, 2014, 10:33:24 PM »
Movember is the worst, haha! Though I do have mustache designs on my fingernails now, which are pretty awesome

General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: November 10, 2014, 10:32:12 PM »
+I went to a workshop on using an integration of mindfulness and CBT to treat ocd and anxiety and I feel really optimistic about it having a positive impact for me
-I don't get enough sleep and haven't for over a year
+feeling good in general

General / oops, happy (late) birthday Jer and Aaron!
« on: November 10, 2014, 10:30:07 PM »
We've been slacking on the birthday threads, guys!

General / Re: Whatcha doing for Halloween?
« on: November 01, 2014, 02:18:32 PM »
Jer and I were Wayne and Garth. Jonas was Calvin from Calvin and Hobbes. We went to Jer's sister's house and went trick or treating with Jonas and our nieces.

General / Re: Applying to grad school!
« on: November 01, 2014, 02:16:45 PM »
I can also look it over if you want another set of eyes :)

General / Re: ▶ ▷ ▸ ▹ ► New Song ◀ ◁ ◂ ◃ ◄
« on: October 21, 2014, 09:12:53 PM »
There is a "post your music" thread.

General / Re: Do you make new friends?
« on: October 17, 2014, 01:02:16 PM »
And as far as breaking out of the "casual" thing into real friendship, it is so hard. I usually try to just share something personal after hanging out a few times and checking for people's reactions. Again, being vulnerable and honest tends to make people feel closer to you, I think.

General / Re: Do you make new friends?
« on: October 17, 2014, 01:01:01 PM »
I am a generally friendly person and usually pretty good with making friends. That being said, I was in a slump for a while regarding local friends, here in Southern California. I've gotten out of it more recently, but have had to be pretty proactive about it.

I started using meetup.com, specifically for a moms' group for people with kids around the same age. Obviously not everyone can join a moms' group, but meetup.com has tons of groups and having one thing you know you can talk about, and with people who you know are also really looking for friends, is pretty helpful.

I've also just had to get over myself and be super up front about wanting new friends. People have given me weird looks, but I have also actually made friends this way. There's a woman a couple blocks away who was walking with her kid and I just went up to her and introduced myself and said I was looking for new friends. And now we are. I also did this the other day with someone at a coffee shop. She hasn't emailed me yet, but she was super friendly. Most people are if you make yourself a little vulnerable and if they aren't, they probably wouldn't be a great friend anyway.

General / Re: +/- Thread
« on: September 30, 2014, 08:43:40 PM »
Awesome!! Congratulations!!

General / Re: yourself as a little one
« on: September 17, 2014, 11:21:45 PM »
Omg Rory! That first picture of you! So amazingly adorable!!

General / Re: How are all you California folks after the earthquake?
« on: August 24, 2014, 09:16:37 PM »
Yeah, it was really far from us! I know Janelle felt it though!

General / Re: Happy birthday Thujone!
« on: August 03, 2014, 08:24:59 AM »
Happy birthday!!!

Cats! Pot!

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